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Exploring my mother’s memory

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We bear her along like a pearl on a string” – Sarojini Naidu, Palanquin Bearers, 1905

My mom is an exceptional story teller. Lately, we have been talking about her childhood, a time that winds the clock back by 70 years. Even today, Bengal is landmass interlaced with extensive inland water bodies and river networks. In her days, access to some of these lands was by boats alone. And when you landed, your options were to walk or get on a palanquin. It wasn’t uncommon for her to accompany her mother or grandmother in a palanquin or walk 10-12 km to get to the destination.

Before this story, I had associated palanquins with rich people of bygone days or a ceremonial affair. But in my mom’s case, it was neither. It was just necessity, a mode of transportation in absence of any other. Sarojini Naidu’s famous poem, Palanquin Bearers, is about a bride being carried in the palanquin and the bride is described as delicate and light to carry “She skims like a bird on the foam of a stream“. My mom’s mother and grandmother were both petite and light women. But mom remembers that the bearers would get tired and rest up occasionally. Sarojini Naidu further describes that the bearers sing while they carry the bride “Gaily, o gaily, we glide and we sing“. Mom remembers their vocalization as rhythmic grunting.

Based on her story, here is AI prompt that helped me imagine her memory: A highly realistic drawing depicting rural Bengal around the mid-1950s. A narrow earthen path winds across the flat delta countryside, bordered by flooded paddy fields, ponds dotted with lotus leaves, and clusters of bamboo and coconut palms. The humid air is still, with distant thatched huts barely visible among mango trees.

At the center of the composition, four barefoot palanquin bearers carry a simple wooden palanquin suspended from long bamboo poles. The palanquin is practical rather than ornate, with woven cane panels and a light fabric canopy showing years of use.

Inside sits a young Bengali mother, dressed in a plain white handwoven cotton sari with a simple colored border, worn in the traditional Bengali style with the pallu draped over her head. She wears only modest jewelry—a pair of gold bangles, small earrings, and perhaps a tiny nose pin. Her expression is calm and observant as she watches the countryside pass.

Beside the palanquin skips a little girl of about five or six years old, full of energy and curiosity. She is barefoot, laughing, occasionally hopping over puddles or balancing along the raised edge of the path. She wears a simple cotton frock, slightly loose and hand-sewn, common for village girls of that era, with short, slightly tousled hair or two small braids tied with cloth ribbons. One hand reaches toward a dragonfly while the other swings freely.

The bearers wear short cotton dhotis tied above the knees and simple cotton gamchas draped over their shoulders. Their lean physiques reflect lives of physical labor.

The composition should emphasize the contrast between the mother’s composed stillness inside the palanquin and the daughter’s joyful movement alongside it. The drawing should feel like a remembered family story rather than a staged historical illustration, with meticulous attention to period clothing, rural architecture, vegetation, and travel customs of 1950s Bengal. Rich tonal contrasts, delicate textures, and soft atmospheric perspective should evoke both realism and memory.

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August 1, 2026 at 1:36 am

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